the basics of divorce coaching

A Divorce CoPilot™ helps you stay organized, focused, and emotionally grounded through every stage of divorce. Whether you’re just beginning to contemplate separation or already deep in the legal process with mounting fees and no settlement in sight.

We work alongside you to clarify your goals, streamline communication, and reduce costs by helping you prepare thoroughly before involving (or re-engaging) legal professionals. Our team provides independent case assessments, assists with drafting separation agreements and co-parenting plans, and helps you prepare for settlement or trial conferences, mediation, or arbitration.

When legal support is needed, we connect you with trusted lawyers and professional partners who share our commitment to practical, cost-conscious solutions. We guide clients through case law on spousal support, child support, equalization payments, and Spousal Support Advisory Guideline (SSAG) ranges. Ensuring you’re informed, confident, and prepared for every next step.

Divorce is complex. Emotions run high, decisions pile up, and the process can feel overwhelming. While lawyers and mediators have traditionally led the way, beginning with a Divorce Coach is often a more supportive and cost effective place to start.

A Mediator is a neutral professional who works with both parties to reach agreements, focusing on resolution rather than advocacy or legal advice.

A Divorce Coach, by contrast, provides guidance and structure tailored to your needs. A coach can support one person individually or, in some cases, work with both parties to improve communication and cooperation. The goal is not to mediate disputes, but to help each person stay clear, calm, and solution focused while preparing to work effectively with their lawyer or mediator.

By helping you stay organized and emotionally grounded, a Divorce Coach can save significant time, money, and stress throughout the process. A Lawyer then represents your legal interests, provides advice, negotiates settlements, or advocates in court.

We believe the divorce process needs to change. It should not leave people powerless or drained. Our mission is to disrupt that pattern and shift power back to where it belongs, with you in control of your own future. 

Divorce is one of life’s most difficult transitions, emotionally, financially, and practically. But it doesn’t have to be faced alone or without clarity and direction. My mission as your Divorce CoPilot™ is to empower you with the tools, structure, and confidence to navigate this process on your terms.

Together, we’ll focus on what truly matters: your values, your family, your stability, and your future. I’ll help you cut through confusion and emotional overwhelm, providing a clear framework for decisions, organization, and next steps. Whether you’re just beginning or already deep in the legal process, you’ll have an experienced, confidential partner helping you assess options, reduce costs, and maintain control.

This is not just about emotional support. It is about approaching divorce with intelligence, strategy, and compassion. My commitment is to guide you toward resolution and peace of mind as you rebuild your confidence, stability, and future.